NOT TOO TOUGH

TO TALK

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At least 14 people lost their life to suicide on the Isle of Man in 2023

2 hours

On average in the UK one man every 2 hours takes his own life, that’s 12 men every single day.

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All it takes is 1 step into the club to start your personal journey.

Why we began

We lost our Ed in June, Eddie sadly took his own life. To the world Ed had it all, a loving family, the cars, the properties – but what he didn’t have was great Mental Health. Many people were so shocked at how Ed passed because what they saw from the outside was the life and soul of the party, The joker – Ed was the great pretender.

As a family, we never shy away from how Eddie’s life ended for only one reason – We want to let people learn a lesson from his passing. Suicide is not a dirty word. it should not be whispered. We could not save our Eddie, but we can save another family from going through this horrendous time.

Please, please talk to one another. There is nothing to be ashamed of by telling someone you are suffering.

Beliefs

No Expectations

When you attend there is no pressure for you to share anything you do not want to. Sometimes Just listening is good to start with until you feel comfortable to open up.

Confidentiality

“What’s said in man club, stays in man club”

The only people who know you are attending are the people in attendance with you. The only time where this isn’t the case is if a facilitator deems you are at risk of harm to yourself or others, then help services will be called.

No Judgement

We believe in creating a non-judgmental environment where you can be yourself. Share your thoughts and feelings without fear of criticism or shame.

Rules

  1. No one intoxicated will be admitted
  2. No alcohol or drugs on the premises
  3. No football talk
  4. No religious talk
  5. No talk of criminal activity (unless as a victim)
  6. No names are required. Use of your own name is your personal choice
  7. Any threats to the wellbeing of other participants or volunteers will result in police being called